Four decks, one evening

Questions for couples

620 questions to ask each other, in four decks: one for asking your boyfriend, one for asking your girlfriend, one for going deep and one for laughing. Shuffle a mix of all four below, or open a single deck and pick your levels.

Open one deck: BoyfriendGirlfriendDeepFun

Boyfriend

What’s a meal you could eat every week and never get tired of?

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Tap the heart on any card to keep it here. Saved on this device only, never sent anywhere.

Tip: the left and right arrow keys move through the deck.

Pick a deck

Each deck has its own levels, from easy openers to the questions you save for later, and prints its full list on its page.

  • Questions to ask your boyfriend

    Light, deep, flirty and future questions to ask him, one card at a time.

    160 questions · Light, Deep, Flirty, Us & future

    • What’s a meal you could eat every week and never get tired of?
    • What’s something you believed at twenty that you’ve quietly let go of?
    • What was the first thing you noticed about me?
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  • Questions to ask your girlfriend

    Questions to ask her, from easy openers to the ones you save for late night.

    160 questions · Light, Deep, Flirty, Us & future

    • What’s a meal that tastes like home to you, wherever you are?
    • What’s something you had to unlearn after leaving home?
    • What’s one thing about our first conversation that you replayed afterward?
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  • Deep questions for couples

    Gentle to deepest: 150 questions for the talk you keep meaning to have.

    150 questions · Gentle, Deeper, Deepest

    • What’s a small thing that reliably makes your day better, even in a bad week?
    • What did you learn about love from watching the couples around you growing up?
    • Which fear do you carry that you rarely let yourself think about?
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  • Fun questions for couples

    Silly, what if and throwback questions for nights that should feel light.

    150 questions · Silly, What if, Throwback, Just us

    • Which food do you defend with your whole chest that everyone else thinks is weird?
    • If you could be famous for one oddly specific thing, what would it be?
    • What was your most embarrassing phase growing up, and do photos exist?
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How it works

  1. Choose a deck, or mix them

    The deck below shuffles questions from all four. Switch a deck off to leave it out, or open one deck for its full set and its own levels.

  2. Read one out loud

    Draw a card and read it to your partner. Let them answer fully, then answer it yourself: every question works both ways.

  3. Follow the good ones

    When an answer surprises you, stay with it and ask what happened next. The follow up is usually better than the next card.

  4. Save and send

    Tap the heart on cards worth keeping. Send the deck, or just your saved picks, to your partner as a link.

Frequently asked questions

What are good questions to ask your partner?

Questions that ask for a story rather than a fact. “Which friendship changed the direction of your life?” goes further than “What’s your favorite movie?” The four decks here are written that way, and each is split into levels so you can match the question to the mood you are in.

Which deck should we start with?

For a light evening, start with the fun questions. To get to know someone, the boyfriend and girlfriend decks open with easy Light cards. When you have time and a quiet room, the deep questions deck runs from gentle to deepest.

Do the boyfriend and girlfriend decks only work for one kind of couple?

No. They are named for how people search, but every question works for any couple, and you can ask any of them either way round. Use whichever deck has the mood you want.

Can we use these over text or on a call?

Yes. Copy any card into your chat, or send your partner the deck link so you can each draw on your own phone. On a call, one of you reads and you both answer.

Is it free, and is anything saved?

It is free with no account and nothing to install. Cards you heart are saved in this browser on this device only, and nothing you draw or say is sent anywhere.

Looking for something else?

Try couple games: would you rather, never have I ever, this or that and truth or dare, for when you want a game instead of a talk.

From the Twogle blog