The couples edition

Would you rather questions for couples

One hundred and fifty would you rather questions written for two people who share a life, a couch or just a very long text thread. Draw a card, both pick at once, then defend your answer. Switch levels on and off to keep it silly, sweet, practical or a little flirty.

  • 150 questions
  • Silly · Romantic · Real life · Flirty
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Silly

Would you rather

sing everything you say to me for a week

or

whisper everything you say to me for a month

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How to play would you rather questions for couples

  1. Pick your levels

    Switch on Silly, Romantic, Real life or Flirty. Start silly to warm up, then let the deck drift wherever the night is going.

  2. Draw and read it out

    One of you draws a card and reads it aloud. Swap readers every card, or turn on pass the phone mode and the deck tells you whose turn it is.

  3. Count to three and point

    Both answer at once: left hand for the first option, right hand for the second. Answering together means nobody copies.

  4. Defend your pick

    Each of you explains your answer in a sentence or two. The reason is the real game, and it is where you learn something new.

Tips for a good round

  • The pick takes a second; the why is where the fun is. Ask a follow up before you draw again.
  • If you both pick the same option, ask each other what would make you switch.
  • Play the Real life cards when you are both rested, not halfway through an actual argument about the dishes.
  • Tap the heart on the cards that started a real conversation, then send your saved picks to your partner.
  • Ten cards is a good weeknight. A long drive can carry a whole level.

All 150 would you rather questions for couples

Every card in the deck, grouped by level. Each one finishes the line “Would you rather…”, and both of you answer.

Silly 38 questions

Ridiculous dilemmas with no wrong answers, only funny ones.

  1. Would you rather sing everything you say to me for a week or whisper everything you say to me for a month?
  2. Would you rather only talk to me in voice memos for a week or only talk to me in emojis for a week?
  3. Would you rather have every argument we have narrated by a nature documentary voice or have every kiss we share scored with dramatic movie music?
  4. Would you rather swap voices with me for a day or swap phones with me for a day?
  5. Would you rather always say “I love you” in a different accent or always say “goodnight” as a full song?
  6. Would you rather let me dress you for a week or let me plan every meal you eat for a week?
  7. Would you rather eat only my cooking for a month or eat only cereal for a month, any brand you like?
  8. Would you rather have a theme song that plays whenever you walk into a room or have a laugh track that plays after every joke you make?
  9. Would you rather spend a weekend snowed into a cabin with my most talkative relatives or spend a weekend stuck in a minivan with my friends?
  10. Would you rather have me read your search history out loud or have me scroll through your camera roll with commentary?
  11. Would you rather have a dog that silently judges everything we do or have a cat that applauds everything we do?
  12. Would you rather know every time I’m thinking about food or know every time I’m thinking about you, which is slightly less often?
  13. Would you rather go viral for a terrible duet we filmed at two in the morning or go viral for our argument about how to load a dishwasher?
  14. Would you rather wear matching outfits every time we go out or wear clashing outfits on purpose every time we go out?
  15. Would you rather have my most dramatic relative as your boss for a week or have me as your boss for a week?
  16. Would you rather take a 10 minute snack break in the middle of every argument or settle every argument with rock, paper, scissors?
  17. Would you rather end every text to me with a short poem or start every text to me with “Dear Sir or Madam”?
  18. Would you rather be known to all our friends by one combined ship name or have a couple handshake we must do every time we meet in public?
  19. Would you rather have a rewind button for awkward moments or have a mute button for my shower singing?
  20. Would you rather have me narrate your day like a sports commentator or have me narrate your day like a cooking show host?
  21. Would you rather always eat dessert first on our dates or always order for each other on our dates without asking?
  22. Would you rather have a houseplant that gossips about us or have a fridge that gives us unsolicited advice?
  23. Would you rather never be able to keep a surprise from me or never be able to fake being surprised when I plan one?
  24. Would you rather have every selfie we take come out blurry or have a stranger photobomb every selfie we take?
  25. Would you rather speak only in movie quotes for a day or speak only in song lyrics for a day?
  26. Would you rather let me cut your hair at the kitchen table or let me choose your phone wallpaper and lock it for a year?
  27. Would you rather say yes to every snack I offer you for a month or say no to every snack I offer you for a month?
  28. Would you rather have your inner monologue play on a speaker for an hour or have me watch a replay of your dreams every morning?
  29. Would you rather always lose to me at board games or always win at board games while I sulk every single time?
  30. Would you rather go on a date dressed as each other or go on a date dressed as our favorite cartoon couple?
  31. Would you rather only be able to call me by my full name or have to call me a brand new pet name every single day?
  32. Would you rather spend a day as my shadow or spend a day as my phone?
  33. Would you rather bake me a cake that looks perfect and tastes awful or bake me a cake that looks awful and tastes perfect?
  34. Would you rather wake up every morning to me singing or wake up every morning to me reading the news like a TV anchor?
  35. Would you rather have my friends rate your dance moves out of ten or have my family rate your cooking out of ten?
  36. Would you rather send me a weather report every hour or send me a mood report every hour?
  37. Would you rather find out I’ve secretly been learning magic tricks or find out I’ve secretly been practicing stand up comedy on the houseplants?
  38. Would you rather have to hold hands every time we’re in a grocery store or have to race each other down every aisle of a grocery store?

Romantic 38 questions

Sweet choices about how you love, remember and show up for each other.

  1. Would you rather relive our first date or skip ahead and see one ordinary day of us ten years from now?
  2. Would you rather get one long handwritten love letter from me every year or get one tiny love note from me every week?
  3. Would you rather have a song that’s only ours or have a place that’s only ours?
  4. Would you rather have a weekly breakfast date or have a weekly late night dessert date?
  5. Would you rather know exactly how I felt the first time I saw you or know exactly how I felt the first time you made me laugh?
  6. Would you rather have me plan every surprise for a year or plan every surprise for me for a year?
  7. Would you rather watch the sunrise with me once a month or stargaze with me once a month?
  8. Would you rather have a photo of us from every single day or have one perfect photo of us from every year?
  9. Would you rather hear me say I love you in a crowded room or hear me whisper it when you’re half asleep?
  10. Would you rather go back to the night we met and say something different or go back and say exactly what you said?
  11. Would you rather have a love story that gets told at every party or have a love story only the two of us really know?
  12. Would you rather get flowers from me every week or get a new playlist from me every week?
  13. Would you rather have a candlelit picnic on a rooftop or have a blanket fort picnic on the living room floor?
  14. Would you rather always know when I’m missing you or always know when I’m proud of you?
  15. Would you rather have our love story written as a novel or have it written as a song?
  16. Would you rather spend a rainy day reading with me under one blanket or spend a sunny day getting lost with me in a new city?
  17. Would you rather grow old with me in a cottage by the sea or grow old with me in an apartment in the middle of a big city?
  18. Would you rather have me remember every little thing you say or have me always know the right thing to say?
  19. Would you rather dance with me in the rain or build a snowman with me at midnight?
  20. Would you rather get a hug from me that lasts a full minute or get ten quick kisses scattered through the day?
  21. Would you rather bury a time capsule of us to open in 20 years or record a video message to the two of us in 20 years?
  22. Would you rather hear what I told my best friend after our first date or read what I wrote about you in my notes app that week?
  23. Would you rather have a standing date night every week or have one spontaneous adventure every month?
  24. Would you rather wake up to breakfast in bed or fall asleep to a slow back scratch?
  25. Would you rather visit the town where I grew up with me as your tour guide or take me to the place you’ve always wanted to show me?
  26. Would you rather receive one big romantic gesture a year or receive a hundred tiny ones you barely notice?
  27. Would you rather be serenaded by me in public or have me read you a poem I wrote, in private?
  28. Would you rather relive the moment you knew you liked me or relive the moment you found out I liked you back?
  29. Would you rather spend our anniversary somewhere new every year or spend it at the same special spot every year?
  30. Would you rather have every love song make you think of me or have one song in the world that’s only about me?
  31. Would you rather go on a road trip with me with no plan at all or go on a trip where I planned every detail and kept it secret?
  32. Would you rather find a love note in your coat pocket every winter or find one tucked inside every new book you start?
  33. Would you rather hear me tell you why I love you every day or have me show you without ever saying it?
  34. Would you rather frame our first photo together or frame our most ridiculous photo together?
  35. Would you rather paint a portrait of each other or write a short poem about each other?
  36. Would you rather stay up all night talking with me once or go to bed early and talk in the dark every night?
  37. Would you rather know everything I loved about you on day one or know everything I love about you now that I didn’t know then?
  38. Would you rather have me cook you a meal from my childhood or cook me a meal from yours?

Real life 37 questions

Chores, money, travel and the small stuff you actually live with.

  1. Would you rather always do the dishes or always do the laundry?
  2. Would you rather have me always be 10 minutes early or have me always be 10 minutes late?
  3. Would you rather share one bank account for everything or keep every penny separate forever?
  4. Would you rather handle all the trip planning or handle all the packing?
  5. Would you rather host every holiday or travel somewhere for every holiday?
  6. Would you rather get a dog together or get a cat together?
  7. Would you rather live in the city and escape to the country on weekends or live in the country and escape to the city on weekends?
  8. Would you rather have one bathroom and a big kitchen or have two bathrooms and a tiny kitchen?
  9. Would you rather have me cook every night, badly or cook every night yourself, well?
  10. Would you rather always control the thermostat or always control the TV remote?
  11. Would you rather go to bed angry or stay up until 3 a.m. talking it out?
  12. Would you rather take a cheap weekend away every month or save up for one huge trip every two years?
  13. Would you rather have a tidy home and no free weekends or have a messy home and every weekend free?
  14. Would you rather always know what’s for dinner or always be surprised by dinner?
  15. Would you rather wake up early together on weekends or sleep in together on weekends?
  16. Would you rather run our lives from one shared calendar or text each other plans and hope for the best?
  17. Would you rather live next door to your best friend or live next door to my best friend?
  18. Would you rather always say sorry first or always hear sorry first?
  19. Would you rather know every opinion I have about your friends or never know a single one?
  20. Would you rather share every streaming password with me or share a closet with me?
  21. Would you rather move somewhere new for your dream job or have me move somewhere new for mine?
  22. Would you rather plan every meal for the week on Sunday or decide what to eat at 7 p.m. every night?
  23. Would you rather do a big clean together once a week or do a little tidy together every night?
  24. Would you rather let me choose where we live or let me choose how we decorate it?
  25. Would you rather have a phone free dinner every night or have a phone free weekend once a month?
  26. Would you rather always remember birthdays but forget anniversaries or always remember anniversaries but forget birthdays?
  27. Would you rather be the one who always drives or be the one who always navigates?
  28. Would you rather have unlimited free flights in middle seats or have two first class trips a year?
  29. Would you rather have our families become close friends or have our friend groups merge into one?
  30. Would you rather take one long vacation a year or take five long weekends a year?
  31. Would you rather make every awkward phone call we ever need to make or write every awkward email we ever need to send?
  32. Would you rather always pick the restaurant or always pick what we share once we get there?
  33. Would you rather tell me every small annoyance the moment it happens or save them all for a weekly check-in?
  34. Would you rather be looked after by me when you’re sick or be left alone with soup and a good show?
  35. Would you rather split every bill exactly down the middle or split bills by who earns more?
  36. Would you rather spend a Saturday doing chores together or spend a Saturday doing chores apart and meeting for lunch?
  37. Would you rather agree on every big decision but bicker about the small ones or bicker about big decisions but agree on every small one?

Flirty 37 questions

Kisses, compliments and secret looks. Playful, and PG-13.

  1. Would you rather fall asleep holding my hand every night or wake up wrapped around me every morning?
  2. Would you rather be kissed when you least expect it or know a kiss is coming and have to wait for it?
  3. Would you rather have me flirt with you like we just met or have me flirt with you like we’ve been together fifty years?
  4. Would you rather get a flirty text from me in the middle of a busy day or get one right before you fall asleep?
  5. Would you rather go on a date where we pretend to be strangers or go on a date where we pretend it’s our 50th anniversary?
  6. Would you rather slow dance with me in the living room with the lights off or slow dance with me in the middle of a busy street?
  7. Would you rather have me wear your hoodie or wear my hoodie?
  8. Would you rather kiss in the back row of a movie or kiss at the top of a Ferris wheel?
  9. Would you rather have me whisper something sweet in your ear at a party or have me write it on a napkin and slide it over?
  10. Would you rather get a compliment about your looks or get a compliment about your mind?
  11. Would you rather have me catch you checking me out or catch me checking you out?
  12. Would you rather cuddle on the couch all day or go out dancing all night?
  13. Would you rather share a dance with me that makes everyone stare or share a kiss with me that makes everyone look away?
  14. Would you rather know what I find most attractive about you or guess it and see if you’re right?
  15. Would you rather have me dress up for you or dress up for me?
  16. Would you rather be flirted with in a language you don’t speak or be flirted with using only terrible pickup lines?
  17. Would you rather have a code word that means “kiss me” or have a look that means “take me home”?
  18. Would you rather get a kiss every time you walk through a door or get a kiss every time you say my name?
  19. Would you rather have me be shy and sweet on our next date or have me be bold and a little shameless?
  20. Would you rather flirt with me over text all day or flirt with me face to face for ten minutes?
  21. Would you rather pick what I wear on our next date or let me pick what you wear?
  22. Would you rather steal a kiss from me in a quiet library or steal one in the middle of a thunderstorm?
  23. Would you rather have me play with your hair until you fall asleep or have me rub your shoulders while we watch a show?
  24. Would you rather have a dinner date where we can only feed each other or have a date where we can only talk in compliments?
  25. Would you rather hear me describe you to a stranger, with you standing right there or read the description of you I’d write for a romance novel?
  26. Would you rather win a dance battle against me or lose one on purpose to win a kiss?
  27. Would you rather have me text you a compliment every hour for a day or have me give you one huge compliment in front of everyone?
  28. Would you rather be told you look good every single day or be told once a year in a way you never forget?
  29. Would you rather get a kiss for every right answer at trivia night or get a kiss for every wrong one?
  30. Would you rather blush every time I compliment you or make me blush every time you compliment me?
  31. Would you rather have me hold your hand under the table at dinner with friends or have me wink at you across the room all night?
  32. Would you rather play a card game where the loser owes a kiss or play one where the winner picks our next date?
  33. Would you rather have a long kiss at midnight on New Year’s Eve or have a long hug at midnight and a kiss at sunrise?
  34. Would you rather be flirted with in public or be flirted with only when we’re alone?
  35. Would you rather have me write you a cheesy love poem or have me write you a very serious, very dramatic one?
  36. Would you rather go on a date in your coziest clothes or go on a date in your fanciest clothes?
  37. Would you rather get a kiss that tastes like chocolate or get one that tastes like coffee?

Frequently asked questions

What are good would you rather questions for couples?

The best ones put two things you both want, or both dread, side by side, and they work better the more you know each other. “Always say sorry first or always hear sorry first” tells you more about your partner than pizza or tacos ever will. This deck has 150 of them across four levels, from silly to flirty.

How do you play would you rather as a couple?

Draw a card, read it out, count to three and both point at the same time. Then each of you explains your pick. There is no score to keep; the fun is in the reasons and the occasional tie breaker debate.

Are the flirty questions okay to play with friends around?

They are written to stay PG-13: kisses, compliments, slow dances and secret looks, nothing explicit. If the room is not right for them, switch the Flirty chip off and the deck skips those cards.

Can we play over text or on a video call?

Yes. Copy or share any single card, or send the whole deck to your partner with one link so you can both draw on your own phones. On a call, one of you reads the card and you both answer on the count of three.

Do we need an account or the app?

No. The deck is free and runs in your browser with nothing to install. Favorites you save with the heart stay on this device only, and nothing you pick is sent anywhere.

How many questions should we play in one go?

Ten to fifteen makes a good evening, and a road trip can easily get through a whole level. Stop while it is still fun, and save the ones you want to come back to.

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