#boundaries
3 articles on boundaries.
- Attachment
How to Communicate Boundaries to an Avoidant Partner (Without Triggering Withdrawal)
How to communicate boundaries to an avoidant partner without triggering withdrawal: why pressure backfires, plus scripts that hold your ground.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
Weaponized Incompetence Boundaries: How to Set Them Without Becoming the Enforcer
Weaponized incompetence boundaries that transfer ownership of a whole chore domain, not police execution, plus how to raise it without contempt or nagging.
10 min read - Attachment
Fearful-Avoidant Boundaries in Relationships: Why They Dissolve and How to Rebuild Them
Fearful avoidant boundaries dissolve because of competing schemas: why you collapse them under panic, and how to set ones that hold through the abandonment fear.
10 min read